There are many resources available to help you turn your life around. They probably know you better than you know yourself. Some couples have been successful in establishing satisfying relationships with the Web. If you want someone who cares, look at the local soup kitchen and see who is volunteering on Saturday afternoons.
He has a dream beyond living at home with his parents or next week’s big party. If you are looking for a man with a sense of humor, keep in mind that just because a guy has purpose and diligence in his character doesn’t mean he cannot laugh and have fun. You may make a few friends, and even break a heart or two.
You cannot correct something you did not realize was stupid. You are starting to develop humility, which is a good trait. Unlike us, God is very forgiving when we repent, turn around and are willing to let Him change us. He died for us while we were still sinners, not after we got our acts together. God loves all of us, even when we do not love ourselves. Millions of people are online every day and you must be aware that like anywhere else, you will meet all types. Just use the same common sense you would use in dating anyone for the first time. If you want a generous guy, ask yourself: Who in your crowd has a generous spirit? Who sacrifices his day off to work for Habitat for Humanity? Who volunteers at the Children’s Hospital as a clown?
RIGHT by seeing what you have done wrong in the past. Others have run into problems all the way from being deceived, to being murdered. If you want someone who is good with kids, look for a coach or a teacher or a mentor. Who goes out of his way for his grandmother or aunt?
Certainly, never agree to meet someone without proper precautions such as meeting in a public place, and having a friend with you or nearby or who knows where you are going and with whom. Get to know each other in a group setting, and let nature take its course. Who doesn’t care if his generosity is noticed or even appreciated? If you want a man of faith you will be more apt to find him in church than in a bar. New Life Ministries has a variety of resources on men, women, and relationships.
Just don’t let it turn into self-pity and low self-esteem. Using common sense, and seeking reputable services with good references are the basics when going online. Or ask your friends to invite you and the person they want you to meet to their home for dinner or to a party first. Who shares freely about himself and his needs, ideas, hopes and dreams?